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I was just informed that one of our own has a very, very ill father. Capt Harv.

Every time I fish w/Harv, Dad is always there. And he's good.

I will wish him well and will say a pray.
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Harv,

Best wishes and prayers for a return to health for your father.

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sorry to hear that...best wishes for sure
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Harv...

Please know your dad is being remembered in our prayers.
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Harv - you and he are in our prayers.

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Harv-Our prayers and wishes for your Dad's speedy recovery. Walter and Family
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Post by John F. »

I've had the absolute pleasure of fishin' with Harv and his dad Sy on Doug's boat at the shark tourney--he's been an AC attendee/regular also. Speedy recovery for a great guy. The two of them together is a treat.
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Harv
Your dad is in my prayers.

Harry
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i spoke to harv last night, sy is hanging in there and his spirits are good.
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Harv, sorry to hear this hope all works out. Thinking about the both of you.
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Dick, thanks for letting us know.

Harv, please know and pass along to your Dad that our prayers are with him.

Prayerfully,
John
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Harv:

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Best wishes,

Tom
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Harv,
Hope it all goes well.
Regretably I guess this is the path all of us that still have our fathers will be on sooner or later. My best wishes for a speedy recovery.
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You and your family are in my prayers.
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Have just told my wife. We both have Sy in our prayers.
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Post by CaptPatrick »

Harv,

Sorry to hear that Sy is ill... Convey my best to him & your family for me. You're all in my thoughts with wishes for a good recovery!

Best regards,

Patrick
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I've had trouble with my computer but was able to view all the well wishes and conveyed everyone's prayers to my father today. I am just returning from the hospital and wanted to thank everyone for your support. Dad has been diagnosed with liver cancer. He had been asymtomatic and is in no pain, but had been losing weight and feeling weak since Thanksgiving. He has also been losing blood to the tune of 5 transfusions since mid December. Last week and today, he was given an injection which seems to have his blood problem under control, but he also had one kidney (cancerous) removed in 2000 and the remaining one is functioning at 30%. He is weak physically, but strong mentally. He starts his first round of chemotherapy Saturday and is also thankful of everyone's support. As if this isn't enough for me to cope with, my mother is scheduled this week for her fifth round of chemotherapy for lung cancer. Thankfully, mom seems to be responding very well to her treatment and her cancer appears to be in remission. Again, I just wanted to extend my thanks to my extended family of the Faithful. Without you guys, my close friends, and family, I would probably be a basket case myself.
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Post by Terry Frank »

Sorry to here this. Hang in there.
Happy to be here. Happy to be anywhere.

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Man...when it rain it pours.

Sorry to hear what you and your family are going thru. I'll be sending a few prayers your way.

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Harv, I wish your father the best.
what good is a boat if you cant spend all your money and time you dont have working on it.
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Harv

You may not remember me but my wife Arlene and I met you and your parents two years ago in Atlantic City. We really enjoyed meeting you and your parents. Our prayers go out to you and your parents. Tony Meola
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Harv: My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!!
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Also my Thoughts & Prayers are for your Family & You Harv.

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Wow. Hadn't been on the site in a while. Harv very sorry to hear this news. As you know I think the world of you two guys and the thought of doing the shark tourny without the Harv and Sy show is incomprehensible. Please give Sy Yvonne and my best wishes that he can beat this. Need him the first weekend in June !
Harv,
Please keep me posted. Let me know if there's anything I can do to help you out.

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Harv
You and your family our in our prayers .
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Dad came home today, but the prognosis doesn't look good.
He had 2 sessions of chemotherapy and it didn't seem to have any affect on the cancer. Any other sessions could cause cardiac or renal failure . He is very weak but very proud and is trying to do whatever he can on his own.

Special thanks go out to Charlie Haws, who stopped by Thursday while I was at the hospital, and really lit up dad's day. Then on Friday going the extra mile by stopping by the house to help my stepmom, move some furniture before dad came home. Charlie....I got you covered at the Mid Atlantic.

If anyone would like to send a card, I know dad would really appreciate it.
They can be sent to
Sy Friedman
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Toms River, NJ 08757
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My sincerest best wishes and prayers go out to you and your family
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Sending good thoughts and prayers your way, hang in there!
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Harv
Your dad is in my prayers.
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Harv,
My wife and I read the post and she has offered any assistance you may need. She is a Hospice nurse with a background in Oncology. She is one of the founding nurses of the Meridian Hospice program and well versed in the ways of insurance and social work. Living in Pt. Pleasant she also knows most of the doctors in the area.
If you are in need of Home Care services or just a person to talk about the best care for dad with she would be more than happy to assist.
All discussions between your family and her would be confidential under HIPPA.
Let us know if you need anything via a PM.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
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Harv...

Please know your dad is in our hearts and prayers!
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Harv-Our thoughts are with you and your Dad. Walter
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Harv
So sorry to hear the news.............my prayers are with your dad
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Post by Charlie »

Harv,
Anything I can do to help.
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Harv: Sorry to hear things aren't going well. You and family are in my prayers. Rawleigh
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